When it’s a new school year, something all parents want to do is to make a connection with the child’s new teacher(s). Forming this connection early on is beneficial for both parents, children, and the school itself, since everyone has the common goal of making sure the child succeeds in class. Plus, when children see the positive relationship between a caregiver and a teacher, it can help the child feel safe in a new environment.

There have been a few times when I’ve had to speak with my child’s teacher and opening that initial line of communication can be tricky. It’s best to establish communication early, rather than waiting until an issue or urgent question arises. Find out the best ways to contact child care staff at the beginning of the school year, or during meet-the-teacher/open house events. Oftentimes, teachers will use smartphone apps with a message feature, online portals, or email/phone call to converse with parents. You can also use these methods of communication to schedule a parent-teacher conference for after-school hours, when you know that you’ll have their undivided attention.

Once that initial communication is established, be sure to keep up consistent communication with your child’s teacher throughout the year. When communicating with teachers, it’s important to write down your questions so that you don’t forget any. Also, jot down notes if they have any tips for your child’s development or reflections on how your child is managing in class. If there is a specific concern you want to address, make sure to initiate this conversation before things escalate.



There are plenty of ways to stay involved with your child’s school and maintain this open line of communication. Attend open houses and parent/teacher meetings whenever they are offered, volunteer at school events, and encourage your child’s active learning at home. When a child knows that their parent and/or caregiver is actively communicating with their teacher, they are more likely to communicate with you about happenings at school.